Someone recently asked me for 3Lunches on how to use social media to look for work as an art director. While I’m not a social media authority, I do know more than my friend about building relationships with people who share my values and professional interests using social media. So, I said, “Yes. I’d be happy to coach you.”

It occurred to me than some of you might not feel comfortable coaching because you don’t consider yourself an expert. If you are a few rungs up on the learning ladder, it’s perfectly appropriate to turn around and help someone to take their first steps. In an earlier post, “The New Experts,” I wrote about all of us having skills and expertise to share with others, but to clarify that point, we don’t need to be the best at something to help someone else; we just need to know more.

An added benefit to coaching is that the most effective teacher is teaching itself. You might find that in exercising your better, you actually get closer to being your best.

Do you think you need to be perfect to coach a friend?  What would keep you from saying yes?